So much STRESS in singles Romance...how do you cope?

I have counseled lots of married and singles who are entangled in relationship issues but the Singles category is much more complicated and complex. That does not mean the married do not experience stress ...at least the married have a steady foundation/base   where they can fall back to at the end of the day but the singles, get squashed most of the time and by the time they come for counseling is always the stage where they are jinxed , emotionally and most times Psychologically.

You find a situation where a female single for instance  spend the whole day in bed watching T.v and eating junk foods...(depression is at work...not just Stress)


Have you thought about what happens to a young lady who gets jilted by a lover after years of courtship when she announced to him that she is pregnant? At least a married woman does not have problem with such situation abi? Can you even imagine the level of stress such lady will pass through?
 Two issues are involved here....she is pregnant with a rejected baby and she has also lost her lover/partner! Yea..yea ,,,if you are a hard core practicing Christian , i know what you will be saying now, but let us face this, it has turned out to be a lost battle  getting the young people dating to avoid pre-marriage sex. From my counseling investigation, i discovered the men are always the one that refused to give up till they ''sample ''  the woman. The women on their own, due to desperation refuses to heed to warning of showing any man who insist on sex sample the way out, for fear of losing him. Crap..Crap..Crap... when will our women stop being desperate for marriage?
Well the milk is already spilled so what next? This is where the lady involved deals with stress and depression battling with rejection and unwanted baby. At this stage, you as a woman must know that this is not the end of the world unless you do not love your life. 

It has happened...the man has left you and does not want you and the baby so what you do is to fix your life and get moving. Seek professional counseling/relationship therapists to help you manage the situation. Stop relying on friends advice and self pity cos it will make things worse unless you have one damn- good- honest-pure friend to listen and cry to. How many such friends do we have out there in the first place? She/he could even be laughing at your back and happy with your doom

A relationship counselor/Therapist will be in a better position to give you realistic guideline and directions on how to move on with your life and not destroyed by stress and depression.

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