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YOU LOST THAT GREAT JOB...ROMANCE..... DUE TO POOR BODY IMAGE!!!!!!!!!

Your resume was on top.... but you still lost that great job....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!! Confused huh? You finally met the lady/man you desire but somehow......you cannot pinpoint why things turned out sour....hmmmm!!!  On the other hand, you already has a top job but somehow, you are just ''dormant and not making waves to grow your company as an executive...'' You are already married but your husband/wife squirms and complains each time you try touching him/her intimately. So many ''buts'' meaning there is a question mark why things have not been working out the way you desire.  Starting  with losing a great job no matter how impressive your C.V is. These days that companies are competing with each other due to dynamics in our life styles, the best of the best takes the big bite and this includes parading ''attractive-good trim-looking-employees'' that can appeal to consumers/patrons. People are carried away with...

Women of ''SUBSTANCE'' do not wait for Marriage or Sell their body to fulfill their life Aspirations.

Today, 18th of November is my birthday and am dedicating this post to me and all women globally who understand that being a woman(single/married) does not mean , you should sit, fold your hands and expect Government and Men  to solve your life problems .   As a Youth and Women Empowerment advocate, i have been following the trends of women both here in Africa where i belong and women in other parts of the world.  When it comes to talents and inner values expositions, the African women are still struggling to push their heads up and those who could not persevere always give up and surrender to what ever life gives to them. In our present age, you do not wait any longer for life to give you what you want, you go for what you want by any reasonable/decent means you can.  I want to take time to talk about this lousy -crappy statements i hear every time the media interview female prostitutes and all the excuse they give for  selling their body is -''Poverty and.....

So much STRESS in singles Romance...how do you cope?

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I h ave counseled lots of married and singles who are entangled in relationship issues but the Singles category is much more complicated and complex. That does not mean the married do not experience stress ...at least the married have a steady foundation/base   where they can fall back to at the end of the day but the singles, get squashed most of the time and by the time they come for counseling is always the stage where they are jinxed , emotionally and most times Psychologically. You find a situation where a female single for instance  spend the whole day in bed watching T.v and eating junk foods...(depression is at work...not just Stress) Have you thought about what happens to a young lady who gets jilted by a lover after years of courtship when she announced to him that she is pregnant? At least a married woman does not have problem with such situation abi? Can you even imagine the level of stress such lady will pass through?  Two issues are involved he...