BluntJacqui

Your resume was on top.... but you still lost that great job....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!! Confused huh? You finally met the lady/man you desire but somehow......you cannot pinpoint why things turned out sour....hmmmm!!!  On the other hand, you already has a top job but somehow, you are just ''dormant and not making waves to grow your company as an executive...'' You are already married but your husband/wife squirms and complains each time you try touching him/her intimately. So many ''buts'' meaning there is a question mark why things have not been working out the way you desire.  Starting  with losing a great job no matter how impressive your C.V is. These days that companies are competing with each other due to dynamics in our life styles, the best of the best takes the big bite and this includes parading ''attractive-good trim-looking-employees'' that can appeal to consumers/patrons. People are carried away with

In my job as a Body Image consultant, i deal a lot with people with weight problem, Skin issues, Nutrition problems. One Natural product that i use all round be it in skin/weight/nutrition problem is what i and others who understand the  value of this product call ''liquid Gold''....which ofcourse is the popular ''olive oil''. EXTRA VIRGIN OLIVE OIL I have used this oil over the years in alleviating the skin, health and total body problems of my clients. The best part of this oil is that, it is very healthy, nourishes the entire body (in&out)and works wonders for people with weight problem in terms of breaking down the fats. One thing i identify over here in my country though among those who would love to use olive oil is that, most consumers do not know ''original'' olive oil. Most people in my country has been hooked to some brand which they supposedly refer to as olive oil made in Nigeria. Sadly, we do

Just recently after rounding up a women group meeting on Theme, ''Are you really fulfilled with your Romance?''; one lady who sat quiet all through the meeting without making any contribution suddenly got up and said-''Wait a minute ladies...(everybody turned sharply at her)...sorry if am drawing you ladies back but i have been thinking about one thing....( i quietly came down from where i was standing drawing closer to her...(i felt a bomb exploding from her... lol...)i have listened to all of you made your contributions and i want to know one thing.....(everyone was focusing on her seriously ....)She asked,-- '' I s any of you romancing a man older than her..??'' Booommm!!!! I said it.....hahhaaaaaaa!!!! Suddenly everyone stop looking at her and the room was so quiet that you could hear a pin drop.... I was at loss too because after her question, she turned to me directly and never removed her sharp eyes on me......i had to break the ice

AFRICA MY PRIDE AFRICA MY ROOTS AFRICA MY FATHERLAND FILLED WITH BEAUTIFUL COLORS OF LIFESTYLES &NATURE AM PROUDLY AFRICAN!!! JACQUI

I and a delegate in a Boat  cruise alongside some white tourists Couple of years back while in Ghana,  i always work with Nigerian companies and Establishment who organizes Conferences, Retreats for their Executives in Accra Ghana .  As their Consultant and expert in Body Image as well as a STRESS management , i included in my services to them , some recreational activities that helps the delegates to unwind and relax. Two vital Physical activities i introduced were: EARLY MORNING COUNTRY HEALTH WALK TOURIST VISITS TO NATURAL RESORTS/SITES plus STRESS MANAGEMENT PAPER PRESENTATION   Part of my duties as the Conference consultant was to take the delegates round Ghana to see most popular tourist sites and to RECREATE . The delegates that came to Ghana always loved this part of their conference and never failed to give the companies i represented a good credit when they get back to Nigeria. Jacqui at the back during Morning Health walk  in Akosombo This health walk co

Today, 18th of November is my birthday and am dedicating this post to me and all women globally who understand that being a woman(single/married) does not mean , you should sit, fold your hands and expect Government and Men  to solve your life problems .   As a Youth and Women Empowerment advocate, i have been following the trends of women both here in Africa where i belong and women in other parts of the world.  When it comes to talents and inner values expositions, the African women are still struggling to push their heads up and those who could not persevere always give up and surrender to what ever life gives to them. In our present age, you do not wait any longer for life to give you what you want, you go for what you want by any reasonable/decent means you can.  I want to take time to talk about this lousy -crappy statements i hear every time the media interview female prostitutes and all the excuse they give for  selling their body is -''Poverty and... no job'

On Saturday, 16th November 2013, during the  Governorship elections in Anambara State , South eastern part of Nigeria, an opposition critic of the ruling PDP party, stormed Anambara state but was restricted to leave his hotel room by men of  Nigerian SSS. News of  Mallam Rufai's movement restriction to monitor the elections going on spread and people including  jacqui  wondered what he was doing in the state since he was not under any of the INEC Supervision/monitor team. Let me say from my own personal analysis what i think of  Mallam  Rufai as a person and the hotel drama he had in Anambara State.   I got to study the political will and non-nonsense manner of this man when he was incharge of the FCT(federal capital city) of Nigeria Abuja. While in office his leadership was   swallowed by Nigerians with mixed feelings due to his rugged and iron hand leadership which if you ask me , suited Nigerians depending on how we operate here. I personally admired his style of leader

Most people in my country Nigeria, keep asking me how STRESS creates OBESITY. This is because they understand the high level of stress in Nigeria and to them, when you are stressed, A .You do not  have enough time to eat. (too busy chasing money)    B .Eat good food. ( Lack of proper  knowledge of  Healthy eating/poverty)    C . Even not to eat at all. (Lack of Appetite)  Now these people who think this way with their own analysis of stress ''ROAD MAP'' forget that same stress crises also makes it possible for them to eat ANYTHING available to them,  have less/no time to relax/sleep well, no energy to exercise. That's the puzzle of stress link to obesity. Someone is saying ...ahhhhhhhhh....now i see.... First and foremost, the eating, exercise, recreational habits  of  Nigerians are very poor. If am not correct...challenge me...bring -it-on...let's dissect it..... You try to tell someone to eat healthy and he/she goes, -'' The foo

I h ave counseled lots of married and singles who are entangled in relationship issues but the Singles category is much more complicated and complex. That does not mean the married do not experience stress ...at least the married have a steady foundation/base   where they can fall back to at the end of the day but the singles, get squashed most of the time and by the time they come for counseling is always the stage where they are jinxed , emotionally and most times Psychologically. You find a situation where a female single for instance  spend the whole day in bed watching T.v and eating junk foods...(depression is at work...not just Stress) Have you thought about what happens to a young lady who gets jilted by a lover after years of courtship when she announced to him that she is pregnant? At least a married woman does not have problem with such situation abi? Can you even imagine the level of stress such lady will pass through?  Two issues are involved here....she is p

I do not know about you.... but right now in the History of  Nigeria Sports, International football victory is trending and Nigerians are enjoying every bit of it despite all the economic stress and political ''drama''  going round. I have also not seen our President soooooo happy and excited as he was during his Welcome reception for the Golden Eaglets U-17 team on Sunday Night, 10th of November 2013 at Aso Villa Banquet Hall. Oga .J. was so happy that he even forgot that the reception was a ''cocktail party reception'' where guests stand...when he said  to Guests before his speech.....''please be seated'' and there were no arranged seats for guests to sit. LOL!!! Still on our president speech, Oga .J. 's speech was so sharp and filled with humor and praise for the Nation's sports department and how his regime has brought so much ''good luck'' to the Nigeria sports industry. The number one citizen did not min

During the last concluded Fifa under 17 world cup in the U.A.E the federal government appointed some delegates led by Senate President -David Mark to go cheer up the boys for their Final match with Mexicans. Am i correct here...? Just checking ....because we hear so many news  with  names from all angles in this country and at times ...one get confused which one to listen and believe in. Ok... now, somehow....the group of delegates could not make it to the finals.  Most Nigerians started their mouth runs....ahhhaaaa... you know recently Nigerians are soooooooooooo angry each time they get a whimp of Government spending some kind of money when they, the citizens are bleeding dry in the area of good living. So the tongues start wagging within these few past days (while most of them never knew the delegates could not make it afterall)...eeeeehhhh but that does not  matter....the issue here is that, money has exchanged hands and Nigerians have not recovered from the Aviation money scanda

The automobile purchase saga trailing  the Aviation minister of Nigeria Princess Stella Odua  generated so much dust and controversy among Nigerians to the extent that even the  market women, farmers in the rural areas, who ordinarily hardly pay attention to Government issues, got a wind of it.  This Drama got to a stage that people are divided with all kinds of opinion regarding this. Some people say -it is because she is a woman that is why she is being framed.  Framed? Meaning the accusation is not true huh? Wait a second. Ok ...some others said- it is because she is from the Eastern part of Nigeria and some bad ''belly'' politicians are trying to stain her image and throw her  out of office to gain political points....another group decided to stand alone and insist on getting the women thrown out of office no matter what sentiments surrounding her problem. Come to think of it, it is very clear that this is not the first time a Government official spent so m