WHY DO MOST WOMEN GO FOR LOVE PARTNERS OLDER THAN THEM?

Just recently after rounding up a women group meeting on Theme, ''Are you really fulfilled with your Romance?''; one lady who sat quiet all through the meeting without making any contribution suddenly got up and said-''Wait a minute ladies...(everybody turned sharply at her)...sorry if am drawing you ladies back but i have been thinking about one thing....( i quietly came down from where i was standing drawing closer to her...(i felt a bomb exploding from her... lol...)i have listened to all of you made your contributions and i want to know one thing.....(everyone was focusing on her seriously....)She asked,-- ''Is any of you romancing a man older than her..??''

Booommm!!!! I said it.....hahhaaaaaaa!!!! Suddenly everyone stop looking at her and the room was so quiet that you could hear a pin drop....

I was at loss too because after her question, she turned to me directly and never removed her sharp eyes on me......i had to break the ice fast and i said......

Phewwww...duh...ladies c'mon let us do this....she wants to know if any of us is dating an older man. The whole women roared out in laughter making me more confused.....(jeeezzzzz..what a session today jacqui...i whispered to myself...)

Ok....by the time i wanted to open my mouth to say another word, one pretty-young -lady stood up and said...'' Why is everyone feeling like we are hit by a truck huh?''  Ok..am dating a man older than me and i am sooo much loving every bit of it. Before she could continue, the lady that started this discussion snapped at her and ask --why? She turned to her directly and said.'' Because my man understands my needs, respects me for who i am and not what i have''. Suddenly , the whole meeting room came back to life with other women cheering, clapping and saying....''ride on sister.......''

BY THE WAY, THIS MEETING IS ON, ONCE A MONTH IN ABUJA NIGERIA....(men are welcomed too...)

OK..back to our gist....after the clapping died down, one other woman stood up and said, ''i am also dating a man older than me and am very much fulfilled and happy....''

By the time we closed the meeting, we had more women agreed that there is nothing wrong...absolutely nothing wrong in a woman to date/marry a man older than her as long as she is very happy.

How about you? What's your story?
I personally think, age is just a number and has nothing to do with how you feel in the inside and if you keep keeping a ''lid'' on it for it to rule your life, you will miss your HAPPINESS/JOY/ LIFE fulfilment.

I have seen young men and women who are totally useless in their love life while dating young people of same age, so it' s not about your age but YOU as a person. You can be  a lady/man of 20yrs yet all spent with no vigor, excitement, spice. So if you meet someone in this age bracket and someone older who is all sparks and excitement , full of live, healthy....which one will you mingle with?

HEY, LIFE IS ALL YOU MAKE OF IT !!!!!
Age makes no difference if you find someone who makes you HAPPY!!!!-----Jacqui

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