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IT'S NOT LATE TO TURN YOUR LIFE AROUND FOR BETTER!!!

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PROCRASTINATION CAN MAKE YOU HATE WHO YOU ARE!!! THE TRUE STORY IS THAT, YOU DECIDED TO DELAY AND AT LAST YOU GOT ANGRY SO ALL ARE IN YOUR HANDS TO CONTROL!!! IF THE PREVIOUS YEARS, ALL YOU DID WAS DELAYING ... THIS IS THE PERIOD TO TURN AROUND AND ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS!! BE IN CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE AND BE SUCCESSFUL!!! LET US CELEBRATE A NEW YOU!!

STRESS IS A ROMANCE KILLER....SAY ''NO'' TO STRESS!!

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HOT-SEXY TINA TURNER ....what has age got to do with this huh?

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Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaooohhhhhh.....this woman has practically shut down the gossip column where most men and women at her age keeps counting their age and dragging their lives down rather than LIVE. I am not sure what Tina has done or have been doing  to look this radiant but i intend to find out. Again no matter what her secret is/are.....am sure she eats healthy....avoids stressing....works out regularly....and keeps a positive mindset. WHO WOULD NOT WANT TO LOOK THIS HOT AT HER AGE?

HAVE YOU BEEN LOOKED DOWN/REJECTED BY EMPLOYERS?

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How many times have you been rejected by Interviewers/employers even when qualified for the job?  I bet you swore not to write any more Resume/CV. It could be frustrating when you want to make a decent living to boost your income and employers ask you irritating/irrelevant questions that makes you want to simply insult them back and walk away. I say insulting because most questions most employers ask job seekers could be insulting and demoralizing. The fact that someone is looking for a job does not mean he/she is a total write off, a no good, a loser or even worse, desperate. Why is it that a  graduate job seeker can work in a restaurant/fastfood abroad and earn good money yet such graduate will be laughed at here in Nigeria if applied for such a job? At the end she/he will never get that job no matter how poor the salary is. Are Nigerian Employers part of the unemployment rut we have in Nigeria today?  Why do employers look down and see as despera...

ABANDONED MOTHERS STRUGGLE TO SURVIVE!!

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Being a single mother most times in Africa is not by choice but by desperate situations most women find themselves!!! When a woman is faced with severe domestic battering/violence, it gets to a time when she could not endure it and the only alternative left for such a woman is to escape her matrimonial home to avoid being killed by the estranged husband. There is also a situation where most men abandoned their wives and children and they never see him till years later. In a situation like this, such women have  no alternative than to face the training and catering of their children alone. In Africa, raising and catering for little children all alone by a woman is a very tedious task considering the harsh economic situations coupled with stigmatization. Join me in my campaign to feed, empower poor single mothers in my community by donating any of the followings: FAIRLY USED CLOTHING FOOD STUFFS TOILETRIES CEREALS DAIRY PRODUCTS ...

ACCEPTING CAREER WOMEN AS GOOD MOTHERS/WIVES.. Why the societal struggle?

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SHOULD I GET TIRED OF TALKING ABOUT WOMEN STRUGGLE TO CLIMB THE CAREER  LADDER?                     ''NOPE!!!!!'' IF YOU THINK A MARRIED WOMAN IS SIMPLY ABANDONING HER HOME JUST BECAUSE SHE IS WORKING, HOW ABOUT A MAN WORKING?  IS HE ALSO NOT ABANDONING HIS HOME AS WELL? AFTER ALL BOTH OF THEM SIGNED THE MARRIAGE CONTRACT huh? DON'T GET ME WRONG HERE BECAUSE AM NOT DRAGGING ''HEADSHIP'' OR EQUALING SHOULDERS HERE WITH MEN FOLKS..... MY POINT OR MY WORRY IS-- why must a career women who is helping out to cater for the family including the husband be seen as wasting her time and must sit at home cleaning floors/cooking/wiping baby butts? WHAT EVER HAPPENS TO HIRING- HOUSE HELPS CARE GIVERS NANNIES BABY SITTERS CHEFS? I think its high time our society gives the working mother some good credit and also accept that they cannot be tied to the four walls of the kitchen for ever..... Thanks for read...

THE WORKING MOTHER & HER WIFEY DUTIES

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She is still nursing her baby, she works 9-5...she still comes back to cook and attend to the husband as well. How does such a woman cope with all these and still be successful? Are there ways the family can help out to make life easy for her? A woman in such a situation can really get exhausted at the end of the day so, it is very vital the husband in particular pay great attention to her. When she feels like not making love at nights, the husband should understand and find ways to still connect romantically with her rather than get angry and abandon her. . At the office, she should try and delegate duties and not over stress herself to do all at the same time. As a working woman that just gave birth, ensure you try as much as you can not to neglect your personal body hygiene due to tiredness. Body grooming helps to attract your husband to you and keep you looking fresh and lovely always. Take your chores both at home and office bit by bit to avoid...